Drop the Pretense

Drop the Pretense   One of the most painful types of conflict is also the easiest conflict to avoid.  It is the conflict you have with yourself.   When the person inside is in conflict with the person you are on  the outside, it drains your energy and damages your credibility.  Yet in an instant, you can be rid of that conflict.   All you have to do is be completely honest about who you are.  Drop the pretense, and you rid yourself of a heavy burden.   Stop pretending to be someone you're not.  For even if you could manage to be convincing at it,  you would gain nothing of real value.   That real value lives in the authentic person you are. In your sincere and deeply felt passions you will find life's most  delightful and fulfilling treasures.   There's no need to live in conflict with yourself for even one moment longer.  Let the true you shine through, and fulfill the wonderful possibilities that  are uniquely yours.

True Happiness

True Happiness   True happiness may be sought, Caught, or thought, But never bought. Happiness is the result of being Too busy to be unhappy.   No one can define happiness. You have to be unhappy to Understand it. Genuine happiness is when a wife Sees a double chin on her husband's Old girlfriend.   Happiness does not come from What you have. But what you are. Happiness is where you find it And seldom where you seek it.   Happiness is home brewed. The surest path to happiness Is in losing yourself in a cause Greater than yourself. The place to be happy is here, The time to be happy is now, The way to be happy is to Make others so.

MAKE IT TRUE

What you tell yourself most frequently, you will believe. What you truly believe, you will incorporate into every Aspect of your life.   It doesn't matter if it is objectively true or not. What you Continue to tell yourself, day after day, becomes true for You and has a profound effect on your life.   Great power lives in the fact that you can choose what to Tell yourself, again and again, in the thousands of moments That make up each day. With focus and intention, you can Upgrade your beliefs about yourself.   You can upgrade your beliefs about what is possible for you. And by so doing, you will in fact expand your access to the Very best of your possibilities.   You'll go precisely as far as you believe you will go. So there's every reason to believe the very best.   With what you tell yourself, choose to sell yourself, again And again, on your best possibilities. For when you Consistently believe something to be true in your life, you Will indeed make it true.

Power To Tolerate

Power To Tolerate You have the power to tolerate anyone and any situation.  But tolerance is not just suffering in silence.  It means going beyond any personal discomfort you may feel,  and giving a gift to whom ever you would tolerate.    Give your time, attention, understanding, compassion,  care - all are gifts, which paradoxically, you also receive  in the process of giving.   And, as you do, you will experience your own self esteem  and inner strength grow. In this way you can turn  tolerance into strength.

See It Through

See It Through When you're up against a trouble, Meet it squarely, face to face; Lift your chin and set your shoulders, Plant your feet and take a brace. When it's vain to try to dodge it, Do the best that you can do; You may fail, but you may conquer, See it through! Black may be the clouds about you And your future may seem grim, But don't let your nerve desert you; Keep yourself in fighting trim. If the worst is bound to happen, Spite of all that you can do, Running from it will not save you, See it through! Even hope may seem but futile, When with troubles you're beset, But remember you are facing Just what other men have met. You may fail, but fall still fighting; Don't give up, whatever you do; Eyes front, head high to the finish. See it through!

All the way in

All the way in   All the way in   When you must, you will. When there is nothing to fall back On, you can only move forward.   It's frightening when everything is on the line. It's also Exhilarating and motivating and compelling and empowering.   Commitment is not a halfway thing. Either you're all the way In or you're simply not going to be very effective.   Choose your priorities thoughtfully, carefully, and Sincerely. Then commit yourself fully to them.   Real, solid, unwavering commitment brings the power of Purpose to what you're doing. Be truly committed, and it Happens.   You can achieve whatever you imagine. Do it by jumping all The way in.

Friendship

Art of Frendship is like a musical instrument. First you must learn to play by rules.. and then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.!