Other Options

Here's a quick, easy and extremely effective way to remain confident in practically any situation. Always keep in mind that you have other options. Sure, you want to do the best you can, and to get the most value from whatever you're doing. Yet excessive worrying about the results will destroy your effectiveness. Of course it's important to expect the very best of the other people you deal with, and your positive expectations can have a profound effect. Even so, there will still be times when other people disappoint you, and times when factors beyond your control will hinder your efforts. So remind yourself that if it doesn't work out, you have other options. Free yourself from worry, and move confidently forward. If one path is blocked, there's another way to get there. If the door is slammed shut, there's most likely a nearby window you can climb through. You may not know exactly what they are, yet you do indeed have other options. And though you probably won't even have to use them, knowing you have them can make all the difference.

The Obedient Father

There was a father who called his 5 small children together.   As the sat together in a circle on the floor the dad placed a toy in the middle.  He explained to them that he won this toy as a door prize  and he wanted to give it to one of them. He asked them "who is the most obedient?" Five sets of eyes looked up at him. Sensing that they didn't understand the word he then asked, "ok, who always obeys mommy, and does everything she says?" One of the children picked up the toy and handed it to  the father.  "You win!" exclaimed the child.

Love Letter

Johnny Mera Naam
Piya Ka Ghar
Choukee No. 11
Teesri Manzil
China Town
Bombay
Date: Nav Do Gyarah
My Dear ‘Anamica’:
You must be surprised to receive this ‘Prem Patra’ from me. Let me make my ‘Pahechan’ to you as ‘Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge’. Though I am an ‘Awaara’, I am also your ‘Deewana’.
I am making you a ‘Prarthna’ to enter my ‘Zindagi’ as a ‘Priyatama’. Even though I do not have any ‘Sambandh’ with you, I still consider you as my ‘Dream Girl’ with ‘Lal Dupatta Malmal Ka’. There are only ‘Do Raaste’ left for me. One is to get your love by ‘Tyag’ or to go the ‘Rangeela’ way.
Wouldn’t you like to be ‘Mere Jeevan Saathi’ as you are ‘Lakhon Mein Ek’? I also hope that you will ‘Guide’ me in ‘Bahar’ as we are made for ‘Ek Duje Ke Liye’.
We will live in ‘Naya Zamana’ where we will have a ‘Suhana Safar’. In this ‘Himalay Ki God Mein’, our ‘Bandhan’ is going to be tied with ‘Preet Ki Dor’. I hope that we will have nothing but ‘Anand’ in ‘Ye Dillagi’.
Aren’t you bored of ‘Akele Hum Akele Tum’ life? Let this ‘Baazigar’ be your ‘Boy Friend’ and we start ‘Pehli Mohabbat’. This ‘Chahat’ is going to lead to a ‘Milan’ where you are going to call me everyday for ‘Aao Pyar Karen’.
Now, ‘Phir Kab Miloge’ as ‘Tumse Accha Kaun Hein’? As you know my love is ‘Himalay Se Uncha’ and hopefully our ‘Mulakat’ will be ‘An Evening in Paris’. ‘Aa Gale Lag Jaa’!
‘Hum Aapke Hain Koun…?’
‘Prem Pujari’