No day is Wasted

No day is Wasted No day is Wasted Living with purpose and clear focus helps you to understand The value of being meaningfully focused. And aimlessly Wandering with no clear focus can also help you to Appreciate the power of a positive purpose.   Either way, life leads you surely, steadily toward your Purpose. Whether you experience the pain of losing touch With that purpose, or the joy of living in harmony with it, You grow in understanding and appreciation.   No day, no experience, no encounter is really wasted. Through the ups and downs, in the good times and in times of Despair, you feel more intensely the longing to express who You truly are.   The beauty of this day is not in its particulars. The beauty Is that you can take it all in, whatever and however it may Be, and add it to the substance of your being.   Whatever comes along, be thankful for the opportunity to Pass through it. Whatever is, go with it and grow with it.   Your purpose cannot help but become stronger, as each moment Passes. Feel that strength, and live it more fully, more Authentically, day after day.

~What Life is About~

Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many friends you have Or how accepted you are. Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you're alone. It isn't about who you're dating, who you used to date, How many people you've dated, or if you haven't been With anyone at all. It isn't about who you have kissed, It isn't about who your family is or How much money they have Or what kind of car you drive. Or where you are sent to school. It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are. Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on, Or what kind of music you listen to. It's not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brown, Or if your skin is too light or too dark. Not about what grades you get how smart you are, how smart Everybody else thinks you are, or how smart Standardized tests say you are. It's not about what clubs you're in or how good You are at "your" sport. It's not about representing your whole being on a piece of Paper and seeing who will "accept the written you." Life just isn't. Life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about who you make happy or unhappy purposely. It's about keeping or betraying trust. It's about friendship, used as a sanctity or as a weapon. It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening. It's about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip. It's about what judgments you pass and why. And who your judgments are spread to. It's about who you've ignored with full control and intention. It's about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge. It's about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow And spreading it. But most of all, it's about using your life to touch or poison Other people's hearts in such a way that could have Never occurred alone. Only you choose the way those hearts are affected, and those Choices are what life's all about.

Just Beyond Impossible

Just Beyond Impossible   Just Beyond Impossible When it seems like everything is breaking down, the time is Ripe for a real breakthrough. In turmoil there is great Opportunity.   When the only choice is to find a new way forward, you're in A great position to find that way. When you have nothing Left to fall back on, you'll figure out how to move ahead.   What seems impossible is impossible only from your current Perspective. Just beyond impossible is the chance to jump up To a higher level.   Imagine what you could accomplish if you were ten times as Effective as you are right now. When circumstances are Compelling enough, you are completely capable of making such A leap.   What challenges you, improves you. Whatever challenges you To the extreme can push you into a breakthrough.   Are you ready to move beyond impossible? Make your reasons Meaningful enough, so that you have no other choice, and you Will.

Heal The Hurt

Heal The Hurt   When you blame others for your troubles, you give them Control of your life. Free yourself from your own anger, From your own resentment, and you'll find vastly more room For serenity and abundance.   It's bad enough if someone has wronged you in the past. Is It of any value for you to continue suffering from it?   Your best strategy is not to prolong the pain, or expand Upon it. Your best strategy is to get past it as quickly as Possible.   Whether or not anyone deserves your forgiveness is not the Point. The point is, you deserve to forgive, to take back Control of your life, so that you can live abundantly.   Your forgiveness may not even make a difference to those you Forgive, if they're even aware of it. For you, it makes all The difference in the world.   When it is you who is feeling the hurt, it is also you who Can heal the hurt. Heal the hurt, and move past the pain, With forgiveness.

Never Give Up

Never Give Up  One day a young lady was driving along with her father. They came upon a storm, and the young lady asked her father, What should I do?" He said "keep driving".  Cars began to pull over to the side, the storm was Getting worse.   "What should I do." The young lady asked?   "Keep driving," her father replied.   On up a few feet, she noticed that eighteen wheelers were also pulling over. She told her dad, "I must pull over, I can barely see ahead.  It is Terrible, and everyone is pulling over!"   Her father told her, "Don't give up, just keep driving!"     Now the storm was terrible, but she never stopped driving, and soon she Could see a little more clearly. After a couple of miles she was again on Dry land, and the sun came out.     Her father said, "Now you can pull over and get out."   She said "But why now?"   He said "When you get out, look back at all the people that gave up and are Still in the storm, because you never gave up your storm is  now over.     This is a testimony for anyone who is going through "hard times".     Just because everyone else, even the strongest, gives up. You don't have To...if you keep going, soon your storm will be over and the sun will shine Upon your face again.     This story touched me! I hope it touched you, too !!!

Go Back

Go Back Sometimes the best way to move forward is to go back. Go back, into the experience of your life, and remind yourself why.   Go back and remember why you're where you are, why you're doing whatever you're doing. Go back and remember what truly matters to you.   In your mind, go back to a time and a place when life felt positively magical.  Realize that the magical feeling is still very much a part of you.   See that now, too, is magical. Understand that your best possibilities are with you even now.   Go back and appreciate all the good things you have ever had. From a deep and profound sense of gratitude, know that in this very time is the potential for more joy than ever before.   Go back, and see that all the goodness that ever was, still is. Now, carry all that goodness with you as you continue to move positively forward.

Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?

Why should the wedding ring be worn  on the fourth finger? There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese.      Thumb represents your...... .. ......... .....Parents Second (Index) finger represents your........ ..Siblings Middle finger represents your........ ......... ......... ....Self Fourth (Ring) finger represents your........ ...Life Partner & Last (Little) finger represents your........ ......... ......Children    Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and  hold them together - back to back Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and  the thumb - tip to tip (As shown in the figure above) Now, try to Separate your Thumbs (representing the parents)..., they will open, because your parents are not destined to live with you  lifelong (Sorry but it's the Truth), and have to leave you sooner or later. Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers  (representing siblings)... ., they will also open, because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own separate lives. Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers  (representing your children)... ., they will open too, because the children  also will get married and settle down on their own some day... Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers (representing your spouse). You will be surprised to see that you just CAN NOT .., Coz Husband &Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and thin.. !!

Ain,t Nothing' You Can Do

Ain,t Nothing' You Can Do There "ain't nothin' you can do" about quite a few situations!  Andit's true with people, too. There ain't nothin' you can do about the Way they are, so it is fruitless to try to change them  into something Else. You are wise to learn to accept them without conditions, Understand them the best you can and love them anyway.  For they Probably won't change much and there just ain't nothin' you can do About it.   Sam Keen Christine said, "We come to love, not by finding a perfect Person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." It's All about acceptance.

Nothing Wrong

Nothing Wrong     There is nothing wrong. There is simply what is, and what you Choose to make of it.   If you spend all your energy on judgment, there's no energy Left for progress. And judgment doesn't pay the bills.   You have the opportunity to create something beautiful. It Starts with accepting and valuing what already is.   Life's energy comes to you, and you can do with it whatever You please. Very little of what comes your way is under your Control before it gets to you, but every bit of what you do With it is yours to decide.   Instead of fighting battles that are already over, simply Accept that things are as they are. Then look closely with a Positive purpose, and you'll find plenty of opportunities For creating meaningful value.   Life is bringing you amazing possibilities right now. Let Them come, let them be, and find joy in making the very best Of them.

To move ahead you need to believe in yourself...

Good parents give their children Roots and Wings. Roots to know where home is,wings to fly away And exercise what's been taught them.  ~Jonas Salk~ My mother is my root, my foundation. She planted  the seed that I base my life on, And that is the belief that the ability to achieve starts in your mind. - Michael Jordan   Failure is nature's plan to prepare you for great responsibilities. ~Napoleon Hill~ A bend in the road is not the end of the road... Unless you fail to make the turn.  ~Unknown~   Time sets the stage; fate writes the script; but only We may choose our character.  ~Liam Thomas Ryder~   The human brain is unique in that it is the only Container of which it can be said that the more you put Into it, the more it will hold.  ~Glenn Doman~   We can let circumstances rule us,  or we can take charge and rule our lives from within. ~Earl Nightingale~   Anger is never without a reason, but seldom a good one. ~Benjamin Franklin~     To move ahead you need to believe in yourself... have conviction in your beliefs and the confidence  to execute those beliefs.  ~Adlin Sinclair~     The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross  and which to burn.  ~David Russell~